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Some leadership teams believe a new staff hire needs to spend time “earning trust” before they are given significant freedom to lead. I addressed the reasons I believe such is usually (not always) a counterproductive posture to take at the Pepperdine Bible Lectures. When I asked the class how long it took to “earn trust,” the consensus was, five years.

Five years.

Churches are willing to get less out of a minister for five years so they can protect against them doing the church harm either practically or spiritually? Why hire such a person if they deserve such suspicion? Who would jump at the opportunity to serve in such a system? Does this all make sense?

At one level, it makes none at all–given the average pastoral tenure is less than that. In addition, new elder selection processes reset the trust clock with at least some. Furthermore, frustrations relating to freedom to do ministry usually run toward the top of the list. In addition, how is a minister supposed to earn trust based on competency when they aren’t allowed to do what they’re capable of?

Ironically, churches choose people as elders they believe are trustworthy. In most cases, full regard for their input and authority is granted from day one. However, this doesn’t happen at the staff level–which is why both systems–elders and staff–struggle to work together.

I obviously believe absolutely EVERY minister should be trustworthy. However, I also believe the infamous “earning trust” phase is self-defeating–leading to lower productivity and higher turnover than would otherwise.

Why not just hire people you trust?

Don’t spend five years paying someone to be, largely, a professional trust earner. Besides, every elder and church member may have different criteria for what earns their trust. For some, it will be competency. For others, it will be not rocking the boat. Others will have totally different “trust earning” criteria.

This system doesn’t work.

Hire people you trust, and trust them until there is some reason not to–remembering grace if/when they make mistakes. Let’s not choose five years of suspicion and caution instead of five years of ministry together based on trust. The best way to do that is to hire well, with a clear picture of “trustworthy” looks like as you hire.

As New Vintage Church, we look for these four things.* (The first three are from Bill Hybels in Courageous Leadership.)

  1. Character. They pursue a growing relationship with Christ and live a life of integrity.
  2. Competency. They are able to lead their area of ministry with excellence.
  3. Chemistry. They get along well with others in leadership and the congregation as a whole.
  4. Fit. They fit our staff culture–creative, excellence-oriented, flexible, fun-loving, and buy into our ministry philosophy.

If we know (as best we can) they have these four things, it’s not hard to trust such a person.

Question: What does it take for you to grant trust to someone you work with?

Yes, I know these humble posts are usually scheduled for Fridays. However, last week was good, but insane from ministry perspective. So, I’m posting Stream of Consciousness on Monday. Sorry for the 3 day delay, but the blog was made for man, not man for the blog.

Here are some things on my mind this Monday morning:

–We baptized our beautiful daughter, Anna, yesterday morning. Of all my dad moments, it’s is unquestionably on the Mt. Rushmore. Anna is a born worshiper. God filled her soul with music and praise when He knit her together in her mother’s womb. I can’t wait to see what He’ll do with her in the years ahead.

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Or who?

If you find yourself saying, “we’ve tried everything and nothing seems to work!” Try some of them again, without working around what you’re working around. It might be the clothing closet no one uses. Partner with local charities or churches instead. It might be the one elder of six who doesn’t agree with what you’re doing, or the one small group of 15 that’s causing problems. There is always some resistance to change. It’s a huge mistake to build around that resistance. Give in to the resistance, or build in spite of it. Work through it if you can. However, don’t build around it.

Allow me to share the parable of Wenling:

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You’ve heard it said, “An idle mind is the devil’s workshop.” So is an idle church. Unfortunately, this discovery is made when the church has idled and begins to atrophy spiritually. At that point, it’s infinitely more difficult to get the church to make progress. It works like inertia.

I’m not suggesting Christian workaholism or creating empty activity to create the illusion of movement. I’m also not suggesting the church never needs a rest–a period in which the Body simply builds muscle tissue and recuperates from an intense period of ministry. I saying that many churches that don’t create an ongoing sense of forward progress, defined in Kingdom terms, will struggle with spiritual dysfunction and decline. Churches don’t become selfish and lazy by osmosis. They become selfish and lazy when leadership gets selfish and lazy.

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Calm Your Storm

July 9, 2012 — 2 Comments

We weren’t trained for this.

No pastor knows what awaits him or her on any given day. This is, oddly enough, part of the beauty of ministry. This reality should cause us to seek readiness for such a time. We don’t always know when a child will die, the marriage will end, our own families will suffer, financial peril will come upon us, or a key staff member will fall prey to Satan’s attack. Then, there are the “positive” chaotic events: a child is born, the church grows rapidly, the capital campaign begins, or the opportunity of a lifetime presents itself.

I can’t list all the chaotic events possible. I can promise you this: chaos is unavoidable. We can do things to initiate chaos, and we can take steps toward stabilizing chaos. We cannot control chaos, and chaos need not control us. Chaos need not drive us from ministry or lead us to sin. Chaos, whether God-sent, man-made or self-made is an inevitability of life.

We would do well to embrace this and prepare ourselves for it, for ministry is service at the intersection of God and life. Our task is to represent the Lord of the Storm. To offer a “peace, be still,” or a “be quiet!” or a “why are you afraid?” or an “I have no idea,” or to say nothing at all–only to be a non-anxious representative of the Prince of Peace. Our task is to be faithful amidst the terrifying and heartbreaking chaos of our fallen world. This is possible only through the power and presence of Christ–whom no storm can destroy.

When it comes to ministry, preparing for the inevitable chaotic events–generally, not specifically, is an important aspect of ministry. We prepare for chaos by staying close to the Lord Jesus Christ and by making sure our own inner storms are calmed before congregational storms come.

Congregational storms expose our inner storms. Leaders who enter the storms without having first calmed their own inner storms will add their own storm as fuel to the congregational storm. Whether it’s unrepented of sin, relational residue with our own parents, or resentment toward our Board–congregational storms surface our inner storms.

The two most important things any pastor can give their church is to stay close to the Lord Jesus and to seek personal emotional health. Step one in leading in times of chaos: let Jesus, Lord of the Storm completely loose inside your inner storm. If it’s still in your soul, you’ve got a much better chance of leading effectively through times of chaos. If it’s not, you’ll likely fuel the storm and run the risk of making mistakes that will set the congregation back.

I’ve got a lot more to say on this, but let’s stop here for today and as the question: Are your inner storms calm? If not, consider taking some time today in prayer for that very thing.