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There is a noticeable difference between the motivation of leadership in healthy, growing churches and those stagnant or in decline. This is a painful reality, but a reality all the same: some churches thrive because they care more. Their passion is stronger and they simply work harder at ministry. They aren’t as sloppy. They don’t mail it in. They serve the Lord at or around the freeway speed limit while others slow down traffic. This isn’t to take away from health itself, evangelistic fervor, hospitality, preaching or other things that can play a role. I’m suggesting that often it’s passion for the God’s mission that drives churches to get improve in all these facets.

Growing churches, for instance, are very intentional in cultivating a generosity culture. They understand stewardship’s importance in the lives of their people and the church’s ministry. So, they risk and work at it. Hard. Stagnant and declining churches often mention it seldom and under their breath.

Ministry done right is hard work. Great churches do it. Others don’t.

I can’t tell you how many time one more meeting took the special day from good to great, or exploring one more option led to something fantastic instead of swell. In working with church of all shapes and sizes, I’ve observed a ten percent or more difference in “motivation” between churches thriving and declining. This isn’t to say elbow grease is the key to church growth or health. Not at all. I’m saying a lack of it is usually a contributing factor to decline.

One reason is because it’s so nuanced. I’ve met few truly lazy ministers. I’ve also met very few obsessively driven leaders. Most of us are somewhere between those two extremes intrinsically, and have to manage ourselves to work appropriately (either “pick it up” or “settle down”). We want to work diligently without injuring ourselves or falling victim to pride or self-sufficiency. We do it because God deserves it. In my experience, He uses especially those who honor His Cause with the desire it deserves. However, we have so many ways to cop out on this today, we need to be brutally honest about our efforts.

 

stream of consciousnessHere are some things I’m thinking about this Friday:

  • Sitting down and sharing a meal or cup of coffee with a friend is still one of my favorite things to do in the whole world.
  • I still love working with college students. They are bright, fun, passionate, and usually open to new ideas.
  • I still can’t figure out why the Miami Heat are so polarizing. I’m more on the “hate ‘em” side of love ‘em or hate ‘em. They get all the calls from the officials in response to a lot of flopping–but I’m not naming any names (Dwyane Wade).
  • Summer is my favorite season of the year. I know it’s not for people in Arizona. But, in San Diego, it’s sublime. When I lived in Texas, it was fall.
  • New Vintage Church begins it’s 90 Days through the Bible march on Memorial Day. If you want to join us, we’d love for you to. Click here to let us know you’re coming with us and to have access to the reading plan, etc. Between the Facebook RSVP’s and the paper sign-ups from Sundays, we’re hoping to surpass a hundred people or more to commit to taking this unique journey. I imagine the stories coming out of the experience will be awesome. Click the link above and jump in.
  • Mishe Mokwa
  • I hiked the Mishe Mokwa trail in far north Malibu last week. If you live in a hiking state, you are blessed. I took hiking for P.E. 3 times while I was at Pepperdine and it’s criminal we never did this trail. The views are stunning and the summit is the highest peak in the Santa Monica mountains. I’ve thrown in an IPhone pic from the trail.
  • My daughters are at the age where if I’m gone for any length of time, even a few days, they look different than they did when I left. I want to get the most I can out of these years as a father.
  • I’m learning to enjoy eating seafood this month. It’s a goal. For the record, sushi is not seafood. It’s gnarly slime.
  • Josiah is my favorite king in the Bible not named David.
  • Crash is still an amazing movie. I hope Hollywood will give us many more movies like it.
  • People tend to choose chronic pain to shorter, acute pain. Why?
  • If the Spurs win the NBA title this year–they have to be considered one of the most consistently excellent franchises in sports history–even though few are noticing.
  • I’d rather our church be like the Spurs–excellent with no one noticing–than good with a lot of publicity–like the Heat.
  • I also hope our view of “excellent” stays clear.
  • The ocean, the mountains and the desert. These three are great to experience God amidst His creation.

What’s on your mind this Friday?

Before You Remodel

May 21, 2012 — 3 Comments

Choas on Board ShipWhen it comes time to remodel a house, the fun part is picking out the floor plan, the colors, window treatments, landscaping, and the like. What isn’t so fun, if one chooses to do the work oneself, is the prep work. If you are painting, it means scraping. If you are putting in sprinklers, it means digging trenches. If you are moving walls, it means sledgehammering and massive cleanup.

Yet, if you don’t do it, the remodeling isn’t possible. Without scraping and primer, the paint will come right off. Without digging the ditch, the sprinklers can’t be placed, and without quite a bit of demolition and cleanup, the structure is going to stay exactly as is.

In my own experience as both minister and consultant, a lack of preparation for changes we make self-sabotages those changes from conception. By “preparation,” I don’t mean teaching on the matter–though that can be fine. You can teach the congregation and leadership team until you’ve exhausted all language, and not be any closer to real preparation. When I say “preparation” I mean “healthifying” the emotional systems in which the change will take place. Without this, substantive remodeling of a church is nearly impossible.

For instance, many churches seek to hire good ministers, but pay little attention to whether their church is a habitat in which a called and gifted minister could and would serve at maximum capacity for the long haul. Other churches want to make changes to their worship styles but ignore the health of the leadership team that must not only embrace the change but have the pain-tolerance to see the change through. Other examples abound.

Before you paint…scrape and prime.

Before you hire…prepare the habitat.

Remodeling can be fun. But, the difference between a dream house and money pit–between a church God guides through metamorphisis and a church sidetracked by man-made dumpster fires is often…

Preparation.

Be still. Pray. Discern. Scrape. Prime.

And by all means…paint.

 

Question: In what ways have you seen churches fail to prepare or successfully prepare for change effectively–other than teaching?

stream of consciousnessHere are some things I’m thinking about this Friday morning:

  • I read recently of a new sound machine that plays Darth Vader breathing for up to ten hours. No offense to the inventor–humorous idea. As for me putting my kid down to one of those–or sleeping to it myself…no thanks. It’ll be interesting to see how people who sleep to Vader’s hot breath turn out.
  • In my opinion as a parent 3 times around now, the only age more chaotic than 2 …is 3. The teen years are challenging, I’m sure…but it’s hard to give those years a nod when they’re out of the house so much of the time. I know a lot of parents who actually enjoy the teen years a lot. I know none who sit back and go, “Honey, you remember when they were 3…I wish we could back there.” Props this Friday to all moms of youngsters out there.
  • I wish Christians writers, bloggers, church planters, and publishers would use the terms, “revolution,” “missional,” “justice,” “manifesto,” and “Gospel” more carefully.
  • Next week is the Pepperdine Bible Lectures. It’s one of my favorite weeks of the year. This year is the last year Jerry Rushford will serve as director–after 30 years. I’ll write a more detailed post on this later, but Jerry’s done a fantastic job as director. I’m also eager to see how Rick Gibson and Mike Cope will add new dimensions over time.
  • The week after that, I begin teaching a university class, “Christianity and Culture” at Pepperdine. I’ve always wondered if I would enjoy or be any good at teaching. It’ll be fun finding out.
  • If I got to pick three places to visit before I die that I have visited already, I’d pick (in this order) — the biblical sites, Italy, and Australia.
  • The Padres hit like I dance.
  • There hasn’t been a movie out that I really wanted to see since The Help. It feels like Hollywood has three genres to offer adults right now–political pieces, rom-coms, and odd sci-fi/fantasy flicks. I’d also love to see some good comedies produced. Easier said than done, I know.
  • If you haven’t checked out Pepperdine’s new series of ministry webinars, you should. They are 30-minute, live, ministry workshops that allow people to send in questions as well. Mike Cope, Tim Pownall and Alan Beard have done a great job on the first three. On May 24 at 11am, I’ll be offering the next one on hiring well and building a healthy church staff. You can register for the live webinar by clicking here. Click on the menu bar on the left to listen to the others.
  • Congrats to this guy who broke the Guinness record for 1-finger pushups. I’m training to beat him as I type :)

What’s on your mind this Friday?

Stay or Go?Occasionally, I take a look at the web searches that led people to this blog. I just find it interesting. One recent search I can’t get out of my head: “Why Should I Stay a Christian?” What a question! That got me thinking of how I might respond to that question. It strikes me that “Why should I stay a Christian?” is different than “Should I become a Christian?”

The searcher probably won’t check back here. But, just in case, here’s a paragraph or two. Feel free to add some of your own thoughts.

To you whom God loves:

I don’t know your story. I don’t know what’s causing you to consider leaving the Faith behind. I do know others who’ve asked the same question for a variety of reasons–and who knows–all or one of them may be yours. I know that often it’s the behavior of those claiming to be Jesus’ people. Sometimes it’s not understanding why God let those awful things happen to you. It might be a sense of failure at beating that addiction, or because the cost of discipleship seems too great right now.

I’ve had some of those same questions over the years–but one primary conviction has kept me tethered to the cross: the belief that Jesus is Lord. If you don’t believe that any more, than you aren’t a Christian any more. That’s what Christianity is about, first and foremost. Christianity is first about how you answer the question from Jesus: “Who do you say I am?” I believe Jesus is Lord. That is why I’m still a Christian–and hope to God you’ll remain one as well.

If you’re wondering whether He is, you’re like many who first heard Him preach. Keep listening. However, if you believe He is Lord, the best advice I can give you is to draw near to Him. He will draw near to you. Stand again at the foot of the cross and the empty tomb. Remember the stuggles of Christ’s disciples and how He overcame them. Remember His words. Remember Him.

If you believe Jesus is Lord, trust Him as you did at first. Surround yourself with other followers of Jesus who can walk through this with you. But, don’t give up. Remember that God will not allow you to be tempted above what you can bear. So, resist the devil, and he will flee from you (James 4:7). If Jesus is Lord, He’s always worth all your life. 

What might you add?